Miller Country Lane Etsy Shop (Nire4470)

I have created my first etsy shop with my Dad. My dad makes all rustic wood items and I am going to expand making and creating rustic decor/wedding items. To start off we have our first listing. More to come very very soon!


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Miller Country Lane/Nire4470

It's official, I need an officiant!

We have officially booked our ceremony location. I am really excited but nervous too. It's going to be outside in a garden right down the hill from our Reception venue. The gardens are absolutely gorgeous in the Summer and have plenty of beautiful flowers and even a pond to take pictures by. We have decided on ceremony times and reception times. There are many reasons, long debated questions as to why and how we came to choose this location but now I am getting excited. I have to call around and look into pricing for chairs, advertise/search for a violinist who can play the Wedding March and an officiant. I have already begun looking into the wedding officiant but everything is either too expensive or too odd-ball. One guy had 1970's sideburns and offered to sing in spanish on a guitar for us. That may be right for some people but I am one of those people who feels awkward when it's one person singing alone on a guitar. lol! I always giggle or dont know where to look or what to do. I want someone who can put some religious aspects into the ceremony to make it a little more meaningful. If anyone has or knows an officiant, let me know!?

Those awkward moments.

I am a shy person and avoid confrontation at all possible costs. I always feel uncomfortable and *too* ready to please when others put me on the spot. Well, boy, I was unprepared for all the awkward and uncomfortable moments that would come along when planning a wedding. I have been put on the spot so far for and about the following reasons:
1. Where is my ceremony? People have questioned my intentions and reasons for what I want and where I am choosing to have my wedding ceremony. It finally just came down to Mike and I having a frank discussion and just deciding and then letting people (only the need-to-know people) what our choice was. The others will find out when and if they are invited. Please dont ask or question a bride's decision on this as it is more difficult than you may assume or realize.
2. Why am I not a bridesmaid? Why are you having such a small wedding party? Why aren't you including so and so? This has been a rather difficult question. We are keeping the wedding party small so as to save on $ and to keep it simple. We want a small intimate wedding with those we love. The more people invited to be a wedding party member would mean the less people that are actually guests (there are not many) Plus, we both didnt have an equal amount of close friends and/or family that we wanted to have standing with us. That is why we both chose ONE person whom we felt most close to and that was that. People are becoming offended or hurt by this but they need to understand, its not their wedding. If they choose to add more people at their own wedding due to pressure from family members, than truthfully, I am sorry. But I refuse to change my positioning on this and do feel bad for those left out but hey this isnt a popularity contest. If for some reason you were under some other kind of impression because of some casual remark made one time 3 years ago, well, again, sorry.
3. Am I invited? Can I invite my cousins boyfriend's sister? Why cant we include so and so on the wedding list? Ugh. If I know you, love you, feel close to you or you are close family, than your most likely invited. If you have been dating the person I know and am inviting for more than a year, your invited.  But honestly, I dont want to turn around on my own wedding day and wonder who the heck you are. And I'd rather not turn to my husband and ask who the person is and have him have no clue either. I would like to know who you are when I write my thank you cards! Plus, I really have this vision of a small family wedding. So please, dont ask or assume your invited. This isnt the VIP party of the year but please, its my VIP day and I'd rather not feel awkward when you put me on the spot asking me whether you are invited.
4. Oh, why are you having your wedding there, why dont you have it at XYZ location. Um, I have made my choice and rather not here about your great experience at your cousins/sisters/friends wedding location just because you think its better than my choice. I cannot tell you how often I have sat through this conversation! When I ask all of these people majority have never even been to or had a wedding at my location. How can you honestly judge?

How do I invite thee?

So, I know the wedding is 8 months off at this point, but I have seriously started to realize what a daunting task it is going to be inviting people! I will have to track down and find addresses for people, order the invites, write all the addresses, buy stamps and mail it all! ah! I have started a notebook for this cause. I am writing down all the people I am inviting and collecting their addresses. This is going to be especially difficult when it comes to actually getting all the addresses from both sides of the family! Last time I asked people on both sides to do something wedding related it was like pulling teeth to get them to do it! So far my list of names and addresses is 5 people long! haha! I have a LOOOONG way to go. I better come up with some organizational ideas for this task. Anyone have any ideas!?

I love Quizzes!

So, we checked our mailbox today, which we only do once a week since we don't get much mail (most of our bills are via email)! And we had a exciting package! :) I love quizzes! I was one of those dorks who always did those myspace and facebook quizzes that asked you who your first kiss was, who you last talked to, what your fave color was etc. I love taking them! :) So this quiz is especially exciting and it got me excited about my wedding again after a disappointing week of stresses that made me upset.

This was the Kiley Mullen photography getting to know you quiz! It reminded me of all the reasons why I am getting married and how much this day really does need to be about us and our love! It asked us what we like to do together, what makes us unique, etc. It was a great reminder of how much we love each other! I took my quiz, and Mike is going to take his tomorrow. He likes to have me fill out all of his stuff since his hand-writing is atrocious and I allowed him to go play his video games.
Anyhow, it had a lovely card and magnet (which is already on my fridge). So thank you to Kiley for reminding me what's important about our wedding. And as my friend Melinda says "It is your special day!" :) Yay!

Blogroll

Oooo! So, I have been listed on a BLOG roll! Cool! I feel super special and like I should be more "editorial"! Haha! Here is the link to the blog I have been listed on Brenda's Wedding Blog. Her blog is really great and has a lot of information AND fun giveaways! Check it out!

Favors courtesy of Peacock Printing of Rochester, NY

So, I received my donation favor cards in the mail last week. They are AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am SO happy with them and so excited that I was able to see something I had only envisioned be created and made by someone so talented. I cannot say and sing enough praise for Erica at Peacock Printing. Here is the link to her Etsy shop. And this is the link to her blog. She did a wonderful job and was so helpful in really helping me find my vision for what I wanted the cards to look like. After feedback and some suggestions she came up with a design I loved instantly. Here they are! I cant wait to see how they look on my wedding day!

I'm not going to show off the back, because I want there to be a little surprise for my guests on the day of the wedding! But Erica of Peacock Printing in Rochester, NY did a wonderful job!

So it's about time I started this thing

So, my friend Kristen, who's blog I will somehow learn to add and follow on this, created her very own blog about her Wedding (Version 2.0) which inspired me to want to write my own!

I have been wedding planning since Michael proposed on  May 21, 2010. He proposed in one of the most beautiful places I have ever been, Lake Placid, NY. The atmosphere there inspired me to create a wedding based off a rustic/vintage theme.

While my dream wedding would take place on top of a mountain with a few friends and family members in attendance, that was quickly changed when our parents expressed their own opinions for a bigger wedding. But it's okay, I am getting into it now.

So revision time came and we searched out and found Stony Ford Golf Course located in Montgomery, NY. It's a shame that because it is a county building, they cannot advertise and promote their location. Getting business there is strictly through word of mouth, but let me tell you, I will tell anyone I can about them. It is the most beautiful location I found in Orange County, NY.

My picture does not in anyway show off the pure beauty of the place. The ceilings are all exposed wood with wrought iron lights hanging down. The bank of windows along the one wall overlook a mountain range. There is even a wrap-around deck outside, which I am CRAZY about! On the wall not pictured is a HUGE stone fireplace. This place is pure beautiful rustic lodge (or as close to one can get!). I love it.


Rosalie is the woman in charge and she makes us feel so comfortable and reassured. She was quick to our, well, MY million questions. I can't say enough about her and the food is so delicious!

That's enough for today, but tomorrow I will start really blogging about my ideas and thoughts.